By Michelle Sturiale, LASD parent
As some of you may know, I am a Los Altos
School District (LASD) parent that has been extremely involved in the Bullis
Charter School (BCS) issue where there is a real live threat due to charter law that
our district might have to close a high performing public school and hand that
school over to BCS free and clear. I
have taken a very public stand, both as a parent and as a PTA president that I
do not want this to happen. However,
there is a very strange phenomenon occurring in our peaceful, quaint town that
I would like to bring to light in this blog post.
On Wednesday night I spent the entire evening
away from my family (as did many other LASD and BCS parents) to attend a five
hour Santa Clara County Office of Education Board meeting. (For those of you
that do not know, this board is the chartering agency to BCS and until
recently, this board was completely unaware of the angst that is occurring in
Los Altos due to BCS potentially forcing a school closure.) Many people
were brave enough to speak in front of an audience; it takes a lot
of courage to speak publicly on this touchy subject especially at large county
board meeting, and I would like to personally commend everyone that did speak and
that has spoken in the past. Additionally, I would like to hope that as this
process continues, more people will feel comfortable getting up to speak.
However,
I am appalled by the behavior of online anonymous commenters on many web sites
such as Facebook, and our local papers – the Town Crier and the Patch. These
posters choose to use their anonymity to make negative comments on public
remarks made at the county meetings and other public meetings. As
I was literally speaking to the county board on Wednesday, anonymous online
posters from BCS were bashing me and accusing me of things I have not done.
I think it is time that the most active and vocal anonymous posters on
these forums take off their anonymous masks and face the public with their
legal names. As we all are aware, the Internet makes it very easy for us to
emotional disconnect from our audience, making it much easier to attack someone
online. This is nothing short of internet bullying.
Unfortunately,
I am now under the impression that all BCS families feel exactly the way the
few vocal BSC parents do and to me, silence equals acceptance. All of us
must call out the bad behavior on both sides of the issue and it starts with
stopping the anonymous posts. Many on the county board have said that
both sides of this touchy issue need to stand down and focus on the
healing. I tend to agree with them on
that point; although we may not agree with each other, we need to be
respectful.
I
have always shied away from confrontation (that’s how I was raised in
Minnesota). This polarizing issue is so important to me that I chose to make public
statements about my beliefs even though I knew I was opening myself up to harsh
criticism. I have (or had) friends at BCS, and I have always tried to have a
respectful conversation about these issues while holding our local and county
leaders responsible for the problem. I have never pointed fingers at
parents or children of BCS, and have never asked for the charter to be revoked
or for BCS to be shut down. I am simply using democracy to stand up for
what I believe is in -- a high performing LASD school to not be closed and to
accommodate the unchecked, ungoverned needs of BCS.